When I was growing up,
the song Home for Christmas
seemed a bit overly sentimental. I couldn’t imagine not being home. Then life
happened and I began to understand the meaning of the song.
Some of it is about being in a specific place with people
you love. I grew up in the San Francisco Bay Area, California. Christmas there
has a very different feel to South Carolina where I spent Christmas when I was 19. That year Christmas was
exciting as I was busy being a debutante. The next year, I was in Europe,
alone. And the following year I spent
Christmas in England for the first time. Since then we have bounced back and
forth from the UK and US but mostly in the UK. It has been ten years now since
I spent Christmas in the US and 20 since I spent it at California.. Christmas
in Northumberland is just different but after 26 years it is my home now (something that was awhile
coming).
Christmas in the UK is different. There are things like
Boxing Day (26 December) which is another huge meal and lots of sport on the
telly. Christmas crackers with their paper hats, inane jokes and little gift. The flaming Christmas pudding (the secret to getting it to light is to gently the heat the brandy until fumes are given off), Christmas cake
and the mince pies. Everywhere you go in
the UK at Christmas in the UK, you get offered mince pies. At first I thought
no or oh yuck, but actually they are
totally delicious. The meat comes from shredded beef suet – a type of fat. It
melts down in the cooking and you just get the dried fruit cum spice taste.
Until the recent British baking boom it was hard to find gingerbread and there
was no real tradition of baking cookies. Baking Christmas cakes, yes but not
cookies.
Also people tend to serve mulled wine rather than eggnog.
Most people in the UK have never tired eggnog. You can get Avocaat (Warninks) which is a
Dutch drink and basically commercial eggnog but it tastes a bit different. In
the UK it is often drunk as a snowball with lemonade (7up) added. The sheer
range of alcohol on offer at Christmas in the average British house astonished
me the first time I encountered it.
And then there was the Christmas panto (again full of bad
jokes) instead of the Nutcracker. SF Ballet’s Nutcracker used to be a yearly
treat and I was so very pleased when I was able to take my oldest two to see
it…many years ago. And I missed US Christmas ornaments which tended to be
nicer. My tree is now mostly decorated with US ornaments that I have acquired over the years plus a few hand made ones, including sprayed walnuts the children and I did when we first moved to this house.
At first when I lived in the UK, I used to wish British
Christmases more like the ones I had
experienced in the US but as the UK as
become home, I realise, neither Christmas tradition is better just different.
As long as you are surrounded by ones you love, then all is well. And if you
can’t be home for Christmas, you can at least dream.
So other than the people, what Christmas tradition do you
feel the need to hang on to? I have
always insisted that we have fondue for Christmas eve and open one present
each. It goes back to when my parents got a fondue pot in the early 1970s…
Michelle Styles writes warm, witty, and intimate historical
romance for Harlequin Historical. Her next book TAMING HIS VIKING WOMAN will be
published in February 2015. You can find out more about Michelle at www.michellestyles.co.uk
2 comments:
so cool to be able to celebrate both cultures in one holiday!
Denise
How exciting just to experience the different cultures. And I agree, neither is better just different.Mention of the Fondue pot made me laugh. I remember getting mine and we fondued for a year straight. lol. One of our traditions is getting together Christmas eve and going to midnight mass and opening one gift. Then the big family dinner
Christmas Day.
Happy Holidays.
Carol Lucky4750 (at) aol (dot) com
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