What’s your
idea of an indulgent treat? When my daughter graduated high school two years
ago, I promised her a visit to a day spa. Last week, we finally got there. Two
hours of unmitigated bliss in a peaceful, soothing, Balinese-style retreat smack
in the centre of the city.
We each chose
the “inner-peace blend” of rose, ylang-ylang and sandalwood for our aromatherapy
body massage and scrub. This was followed by a gentle facial from our skilled and
charming beauty therapists. Not only did my skin feel wonderful afterward, so
did my psyche. As a writer, I spend most of my day at a computer and hold my
stress in my shoulders—there’s nothing like massage to release that stress.
We were reluctant to leave this lovely treatment area! |
My daughter
truly deserved her treat; I truly deserved mine. So why did I feel a little
guilty explaining where we’d been in the middle of a working day? Even though
it was at a bargain price using a coupon offer?
Such a peaceful atmosphere reminiscent of Bali and Thailand |
So why don’t I indulge more often? First, money; second, money; and third, time!
I hope the time
before my next spa session won’t be measured in years. But in the meantime, I
realize there are simpler, less-expensive treats that give my spirits a lift.
TREAT NUMBER 1
Of course
chocolate has to come first! I’m talking good-quality chocolate in quantities
that won’t send the scales soaring. Dark chocolate is said to be best for you in terms of mood lifting, but milk chocolate is my favorite.
What an indulgence! |
TREAT NUMBER 2
Luxurious scented
soaps and body washes that turn the everyday shower into a treat. I’m an
inveterate bargain hunter and stock up at outlets and online.
I have no idea what Indian Pomelo smells like, but I'm looking forward to finding out! |
TREAT NUMBER 3
Shopping.
Uninterrupted shopping time where I can wander around a mall, and look at
exactly what I want without having to worry about anyone else whining about
hunger, sore feet or boredom. If I return home without buying a thing, that’s
okay. Although the exhilarating outcome is a little money spent on a big bargain. And
the good news is, I’ve just discovered that mall-walking is considered a
legitimate form of exercise!
Of course I
dream of luxury resorts with lagoon-style pools and trips to exotic
destinations but sometime the little treats can be just the thing to set the
day right.
What about
you? What are your favorite indulgences? How do you treat yourself? I’d love to
hear!
Kandy
Shepherd writes fun, feel-good fiction. Her books include Something About Joe, Love is a Four-Legged Word and Home Is Where the Bark Is and The Castaway Bride—her heroines love using scented bath
products that imbue them with a special scent that tantalizes the heroes!
Visit
Kandy at her website
(For Australian readers, the spa we visited was the
wonderful Cendana Spa in the Grace Hotel, Sydney.)
14 comments:
I love bubble baths, dark chocolate and calamari. Not all at the same time. I also buy myself flowering plants and fresh fruit. Right at the moment I have three phalaenopsis orchids on my dining room table ~ they bring sunshine into my life during our long winter.
Need all of those specially those chocolates! :D
One of my favorite pampering sessions has
me curled up in a corner of "my big comfy
couch." I'm surrounded by lots of pillows
and books and a pot of tea! For me, that is
true indulgence!
Pat C.
I agree Kandy, we shouldn't feel guilty when we indulge(look after/think of) ourselves :)
Although I do love my chocky fix, I have 2 other indulgences that come straight to mind....
There's always the secret delight of going into an Art/Craft OR Book Store and being able to buy all those things/books you want (but not always need) :)
And then there is saving long and working hard for the trips of a lifetime where you walk old cobble stone roads, wander through a 12th Century Abby's Grave yard and paying a fortune to enjoy a wonderful meal/show in the dining hall of a 2000 year old Castle AND NOT FEEL ONE OUNCE OF GUILT FOR ANY OF IT :)
Kandy, nice blog. I love good quality, delicious smelling soaps, too. Craft classes are another indulgent treat — I only do one or two a year, but when I do, it's always such fun. And when I finish a book i nearly always go to the hairdresser, and really I'm not sure whether that's because it;s a treat or whether i really need to, having been in the deadline cave for a month. LOL.
Flowering plants inside? Especially in winter? Kaelee, I think that is the most perfect indulgence!
Funny how the chocolate tops the list, isn't it, Lory Lee!
Pat, that sounds utterly blissful! What a treat to have time for reading, a good book to start and a comfortable spot to curl up in.
I love your indulgences, Maryde. Isn't it true that a treat is something we don't need, but want! And to be able to enjoy it--like your wonderful trip--without guilt, is really the key!
A craft class, Anne? Great idea. I'd like to master embroidery but have only been to one class. More classes on the list wish for the future!
Of course the ultimate treat is a new book from a favorite author. On my birthday list for later in this month is your new release, THE AUTUMN BRIDE. If someone doesn't give it to me, I'll definitely be buying it myself! It sounds like the start of a wonderful new series.
I'm also a lover of delicious soaps. Friends & family know this so I get quite an assortment as gifts. My linen cupboard & lingerie drawer smell divine.
Kandy, your blog made me smile. Sometimes it's so hard to treat ourselves, isn't it, not just because of the money, but as you say, the time. I often feel I should be doing something else. There's a huge list of other things I need to do. I enjoy all the treats you've listed. I suppose my all time treat is a chunk of time alone to read a darned good book. I think that's my fave of all!
Those lovely soaps do add a wonderful scent to linen and lingerie, don't they Mary? I do that, too.
Agree, Annie, just to be able to read uninterrupted is a fabulous treat! (And I do like nibbling on chocolate at the same time!)
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