If you haven’t heard, an erotica book about BDSM is topping
the bestseller charts and the author has even sold the movie rights to Universal
Pictures and Focus Features. Apparently
there were ten different studios bidding for those rights. Of course, I’m talking about Fifty Shades of
Grey.
It was interesting to see the reader reviews on sites like
Amazon say things like “I couldn’t stand the hero, but I couldn’t put the book
down.” To me, that means the author drew
them into the story and evoked strong emotional reactions.
It is also interesting to see the controversy around these
books. A friend of mine sent me an email
one day in shock because she’d just heard that Dr. Drew was doing a segment on
erotic romance and the teaser line was “Erotic romance: fantasy or
violence?” Wow. Here’s a link to that segment if you’d like
to check it out:
I’ve been writing BDSM for years. In my books, it’s part of fantasy role
playing my characters are involved in.
When my book SECRET TIES came out in 2009, I was a little nervous about
what people’s reactions would be. I was
delighted when Amara, a reviewer at Publisher’s Weekly, said ” It’s fun to read
erotica with a believable and engaging plot. As a feminist, I appreciate the
fact that Summer and Max directly approach and then satisfactorily resolve the
question of whether it’s politically correct to engage in S & M in an era
of gender equality.”
So why would a strong, modern woman partake in a
Dominant-submissive role? Summer, my
heroine in Secret Ties, asks exactly that.
“Are we making you uncomfortable,
Summer?” Tanya asked.
As much as the discussion triggered
thoughts of hot illicit sex with Max, she was sure that was more because of his
strong masculine aura.
“Why would any woman want to be
submissive to a man when we’ve fought so long to be recognized as strong and
independent?
“Summer, come here.”
At Max’s tone, Summer’s gaze flew
to his face. His dark eyes cut through her
uncertainty as he spoke again. “Stand up
and come over here.”
His commanding tone was totally
irresistible. She stood up and stepped
toward him before she realized what she was doing.
She stopped in front of him,
feeling a bit foolish, yet a part of her wanted to obey him. He seemed so utterly masculine and that
thrilled her.
“Fill my glass with champagne.”
She drew in a deep breath,
realizing she’d been worried—yet excited at the prospect—that he would order
her to do something… illicit… even if just a kiss.
“Now Tanya’s,” Max commanded.
She filled it, then stood there
holding the bottle.
“Now put the bottle down and return
to your seat.”
She replaced the bottle on the
table. Why had she waited for him to
tell her to do that? She’d stood there
holding it like a mindless idiot. It was
as if she’d gone into a mode where she just waited for his commands, with no
mind of her own.
She returned to her seat.
“You were just a submissive,” Max
said.
She nodded, not risking saying
anything, afraid her voice would quaver.
“The Dominant-submissive
relationship is all about the exchange of power. The submissive chooses to be controlled by
the Dominant. The Dominant does not take
away the rights of the submissive, she gives them freely.
“A submissive never has to do
anything she doesn’t want to do. You
could have chosen at any time not to follow my commands.”
What do
you think about BDSM? Does the idea of a
big strong man taking control get your heart thumping? Or would you prefer to be the one in
control? Do you prefer BDSM in books
rather than the bedroom? Or would you
prefer to avoid it altogether? Share
your thoughts.
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