The novelist's life is divided between two worlds -- the every day world and the world of her imagination. In order to write novels, an author must spend a considerable time in her imagination. This can cause difficulties for a mother as children may not understand this. Or that you need to give a few moments for the author to get back into the every day world if you want a sensible answer.
My eldest son when he was about 13 became annoyed with my monosyllabic answers and asked if he could go to Moscow. To this day, I am not sure why he chose Moscow. In my defence, I did hear him say it and I did agree. I also did not say when he could go, something he chose to ignore. None of the children have let me forget it.
In fact, the phrase -- Mom, can I go to Moscow? has come to mean you better stop writing and pay attention.
For my eldest son, the phrase has taken on a different meaning. I think it simply made him more determined that I would keep my promise and that he would go. He learnt Russian as his high school offered it and has just returned from a second trip to Russia. This time, he spent time in Moscow and St Petersburg rather than a language school. During the first trip, he had only a few hours in Moscow, and most of it was closed due to demonstrations. Therefore, he contended that he had not really been able to experience it. Thus, when the school offered a week long trip to Moscow and St Petersburg, he decided that it was what he wanted to do.
Being older, he also came back more aware of what Russian life was like. Cigarettes, vodka and books are very cheap. People have different expectations and Russians like to do things by printed timetable and dislike free time. He also discovered that he preferred St Petersburg to Moscow (Moscow still remains very communist) And that some day he'd like to go back.My youngest has taken a leaf from his brother's book and has become determined to go Svalbard in Norway. I think I did agree to this one as well. But he is busy with the maps, learning about natural history etc. So perhaps, it is not a bad thing -- Juggling two worlds.
Less good was having my husband ask what was wrong, why was I crying, only to have to confess about the hero of Impoverished Miss, Convenient Wife being in grave difficulties. Cue perplexed frown and his pointing out that I write Mills & Boon historical romances where a Happy Ending is guaranteed. But...But I am not at the end!, I exclaimed, scribbling away furiously. At which point, he retreated behind his newspaper, muttering about writers and thier worlds.
Still as I point out to my family, it is far better that I put the drama and emotion into my books, rather than putting it into family life!
So has anyone else ever been distracted and agreed to something that has far reaching consequences?
Contest:
I will draw the winner next Thursday 16 April.
UPDATE: Lori Patterson's name was the first out of the hat. An email has been sent but if Lori could contact me and tell me which book she'd like. Many thanks to all who entered.
