My cartoonized profile pic from a reader friend! |
My first writing love will always be romance, so kid
characters are never my central focus. But I dearly love it when I have a child
in a story because they are so much fun to write. From teens to babies, the differences
in personality, gestures and actions are so vastly different from one year to
the next. Think about it… between the time you are thirty and forty, does all
that much change about you? Maybe you tweak your hair cut or color. But in a
child, the difference of ten years is a whole world. So to write any age
authentically means research.
My first stop is often my family photo albums. Because what
better case studies do I have than the kids that I raised? I had a front seat
to watch them grow through all stages. To marvel at their new mastery of skills
day by day, seeing how they changed from adorably dependent little baby bundles
to the amazing young men they are today.
Bachelor dad falls for nanny to his nephew |
In one important way, he was very different from any of my
boys in that he’d lost his birth parents at a young age. When we meet him, he’s
been given to his bachelor uncle to raise—a good-hearted with man with no knowledge
of parenting. Is it any wonder my toddler character acts out in unpredictable
ways after so much injustice in his young life?
But in so many other ways, Teddy was a boy I absolutely recognized.
While my heart hurt for all Teddy had lost, he also has the gift of toddlerhood
that allows him to find joy in the moment no matter what happened the day
before. Tears to giddy laugher and back again comes with the age. So when my baby-loving
nanny steps onto the scene, she can find this boy’s smile in no time.
One of my three favorite toddlers-- my middle son being sweetly adorable. Yes, that's a sock in his mouth. |
**Do you have any toddlers in your life? Enjoy a certain age
of childhood in particular? Share with me in the comments and I’ll give a
random poster a copy of an earlier Texas Cattleman’s Club book, Expecting a
Scandal. In the meantime, I hope you’ll keep an eye out for THE RANCHER’S BARGAIN in stores!