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Wedding Accessories image by Rosen Georgiev, http://www.freedigitalimages.net |
I had the great privilege of going to a wedding in the weekend. I love going to weddings - such happy, fun, exciting occasions! It is such an honour to be there and celebrate with the happy couple :)
I'm always fascinated and delighted to see how people stamp their individuality on their weddings. Some might have a very original wedding dress - the most unusual, and frankly gorgeous, wedding frock I've seen was a purple one - a big full skirt in a luscious purple with flowers hand-painted around the bottom of it. It was stunning!
Others, like the wedding in the weekend, have a bridesman instead of a bridesmaid (and a groomsmaid instead of a groomsman); they might have music that reflects their taste, or the bride might make her entrance in the side-car of a motorcyle...
Then there's the venues - from church to garden to sports stadium to tropical-island-beach. I know couples who've gone to Vegas and given that I live in New Zealand, this wasn't a 'spur-of-the-moment' decision! Others have gotten hitched on the top of a mountain having been helicoptered in.
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Wedding Cake image by Rosen Georgiev. http://www.freedigitalimages.net |
When I got married I was a traditionalist - it was the old stone church, big white dress and Rolls Royce to ride in for me. I loved it. But I confess I had a few moments of a 'beach elopement' fantasy going!
Now, as a romance writer, I ADORE getting to dream up the weddings for my heroes and heroines. Not that many of my books end up with a marriage - often its an engagement, or a declaration of commitment, but that doesn't stop me from envisioning what their wedding might be like. So much fun! In one book where I did describe the wedding, I had it as a surprise - the hero carts the heroine off for a weekend and it turns out he's organised the whole wedding (and it's actually a fairly traditional one) - and she's thrilled because she's always done all the 'organising' for everyone else, and she's very happy in this case she didn't have to! She could just enjoy it.
But I do love to gawp at weddings - if I'm out on the weekend and spot a ribboned car, then I'm rubbernecking to try to catch a glimpse of the bride! And I love it when you see something unique, or a twist on convention that reflects something about the happy couple...
So, to be in the draw to win a copy of FIRST TIME LUCKY? comment below and let me know some of the most unique or unconventional things you've seen at weddings!
EDITED TO ADD: the draw is now closed and the winner is Chrisbails! Thanks so much for sharing wedding stories with me everyone! :)
I'll draw a random winner from the commenters on Wednesday 21 March and edit the post to let you know!
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TODAY bestseller Natalie Anderson writes fun, frisky, feels-good contemporary
romance for Harlequin Mills & Boon and Entangled. With twenty books
published, she’s also been a Romantic Times Award nominee & a finalist for
the R*BY (Romantic Book of the Year). She
lives in Christchurch, New Zealand with her husband, four children and what
feels like a million ducks.
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